Muahahaha... I'm back to my blog.
Sorry for not updating as I am currently busy. I have been for my training session as a training Beautician. I've got to learn manicure, pedicure, spa, detoxification,, waxing, facial etc...
It's fun and enjoying for me. Get to learn and explore new things. I feel so contented as God have been taking care of me though there were ups and downs times in my life. But He's always there going through with me and giving me opportunities which not many fortunate people like me have.
Wanted to quit manna but En asked me to stay on to help her out. So I decide to stay to help her out for weekdays only. After all everything is still as per normal and I am enjoying my life to the fullest.
So currently I'm holding on to 2 part times, and my dad persuaded me to give up one. I knew he doesn't like me working. But I would rather spent my time more fruitfully than slacking to kill time. If can, I hope to get 1 more job to kill my mornings. Sounds like a working freak. I'm joking, I knew my dad will kill me then.
Now, Abby and I tried to make time to meet up with each other as least once per week in the mornings. We got to fight and defeat tiredness. And we WON though sometimes we are late for a few mins. I felt we are closer to each other and share almost everything under the sun.
Weili went to the other outlet to work and is quite happy over there. Is a good thing as we got to live to enjoy every moments of our life. But I'm sure we won't lost touch for good though we won't be seeing one another as often as before.
Oh, by the way, have you guys tried to meet up or even sms/call up some old friends whom you have maybe forgotten or lost touch? If yes, good keep it up! If no, what are you waiting for?
For me? I did. I did sent sms-es to the contacts stored in my mobile. But have not tried to arrange for a meet up as my time is all packed. I knew they are all well and enjoying what they are doing now. That's a good thing.
However, there are some who meet with some unfortunates or I should say obstacles in their life. Pray that they will overcome it and go on with life once again. God Bless..
Greats...! I'm going to the F1 race this Sunday! My dad bought 4 tickets for the family. Looking forward to enjoy this first race ever going on right in front of my eyes! I will try to post pictures if I can to share with you guys! =)
This year I will be going overseas twice. Shall be going over to Malaysia. Dad promised me my shopping spree everything sponsored! That's cool enough.
After which Macau and Hong Kong in Dec. This time I got to agree into going there with my family. My Parents persuaded me for few months before I agreed. Since they promised me my Shopping spree and egg tarts. As for Casio? My dad is going to scarifies his sleep for Casio as I have no weakness for gambling.
Shopping overseas will be better than shop in Singapore. Singapore's shopping centre seems to be similar, and I seems to have everything I wanted. Nothing fresh.
Feel so sorry to be unable to go Malaysia with Weili as my dad has planned all these trips. Will definitely organise one again.
Oh yea, I just recalled. Taiwan trip to celebrate our 21st year of life with my dear SSG (Meng Hwee, Khai Chin, Yun Ping, Belinda, Wei Li, Gui Yu, Ethel, Me). Counting down, 2 more years from now.
Cheers!!! Meeting up with the SSG soon at the end of oct. I have got it all planned up with Weili. Venue: Sentosa!! Currently, planning for a gathering at 1st week of Dec for ex-GB and BB from our batch with Abby. Venue: yet to be confirmed.
All right, shall see you guys again soon! =))
loves, Yvonne
Saturday, August 23, 2008
After such a long time I cleared up my room and feel more cosy to sleep and to stay in this neater and cleaner room of mine. While clearing, I found this box that stores a lot of past memories. From ex- best friends to boyfriends. Then I realise, we all lack of the courage to have a good talk with each other and misunderstandings then arose.
Firstly, is my first ex-boyfriend. I always thought that he don't understand me and our character is not suitable for each other. Thinking back, he is one of a nice guy who will give in to me. Though he will flare up at me at times, but most of the time I'm the unreasonable one. If we had a calm and peaceful talk, things wouldn't have gone that bad to the extend that we broke up. We are still Friends but not close friends.
Secondly, is a close friend in secondary 1 & 2. We are rather close, character is almost similar. Everything about her was good. But there is this one thing I can't accept. Is she don't admit she lost, in terms of results and whatever it is. So one day, I just ignored her but she never fails to find out the reason from people around us and failed. Thus we split in secondary 3 and then we went separate ways. If there is a talk between us, who knows whats the outcome?
Thirdly, my second ex-boyfriend. He is another nice guy. He gives in to me be it I'm unreasonable or he's at fault. He dislike this ex-best friend of mine. He always thought that it was her that made me so busy to have no time for him. She is the one who was always beside me together with him. He did initiate a talk with me, unfortunately, I ignored. Reason is I trust my best friend. At that time I wondered, why can't I have both boyfriend and best friend. In the end, I chose to give up one of them. And is my Boyfriend and we lost contact. If I did not ignored his intention to have a talk with me, what will things be like now?
Lastly, this ex-best friend whom I chose and can you imagine we are that close to give each other a nick? "Darling" Sounds mushy but we are just FRIENDS. I must admit she was really someone nice and closest to me. Many times, I argued and gave faces to my CCA buddies and my second ex-boyfriend over her. At that time, I don't think all these are worthless as she was my best and closest friend at that time. I thought we could remain that close forever, but I'm wrong. We went everywhere together, almost explored the whole of Singapore. Then slowly, our relationship strained. Everything changed in just a spilt of a second. She began to lie to me, said hurting stuffs to me, controlling me to the extend of expecting me to report to her in whatever I'm doing. I'm really sorry but I have to ignore her from then on. Expecting her to give me an explanation for her action before replying to her SMSes. Instead she went more overboard then ever. I guess she did not know I was expecting an explanation. Ever since, we lost contact and went our own ways and I did not get the reasons of she lying till now. It has been 2 years. If, I just told her straight and confront her at that very moment she began to change, what is the outcome 2 years ago to now? If she suddenly gives me an explanation now, will I listen? I will if it's nothing but the TRUTH. One more friend is better than one more enemy.
Luckily, I managed to accept En's idea of having a talk with Li, else I can't imagine what will we be like now. Ever since the talk, Li and I are closer to one another. Now to me, a talk is really a powerful solution only when both parties are willing to listen and accept their own faults and have the will to change for the person they care. This is the doing of a matured adult. Thinking of cutting off ties with one another is simply too childish and silly. I admit, I'm childish in the past, and I am willing to change. What about you?
Perhaps, you may encounter the same situation as me. Rather I should say, everyone does encounter these problems. It's time for you to buck up your courage and be a matured adult, take up your mobile now and initiate a good and fruitful talk with the other party. Be it just an apology, giving explanation, asking for explanation or just a simple sms, to show you simply care the one you have not been contacting for years. This is not a sense of weakness. Cause you are willing to take up the first step and this prove you are a winner.
I shall end with:
A Loser is the one who has no courage to admit his/her fault. A Loser will hide in a corner waiting for a Winner to give in. Winner or Loser? Your choice.
Firstly, is my first ex-boyfriend. I always thought that he don't understand me and our character is not suitable for each other. Thinking back, he is one of a nice guy who will give in to me. Though he will flare up at me at times, but most of the time I'm the unreasonable one. If we had a calm and peaceful talk, things wouldn't have gone that bad to the extend that we broke up. We are still Friends but not close friends.
Secondly, is a close friend in secondary 1 & 2. We are rather close, character is almost similar. Everything about her was good. But there is this one thing I can't accept. Is she don't admit she lost, in terms of results and whatever it is. So one day, I just ignored her but she never fails to find out the reason from people around us and failed. Thus we split in secondary 3 and then we went separate ways. If there is a talk between us, who knows whats the outcome?
Thirdly, my second ex-boyfriend. He is another nice guy. He gives in to me be it I'm unreasonable or he's at fault. He dislike this ex-best friend of mine. He always thought that it was her that made me so busy to have no time for him. She is the one who was always beside me together with him. He did initiate a talk with me, unfortunately, I ignored. Reason is I trust my best friend. At that time I wondered, why can't I have both boyfriend and best friend. In the end, I chose to give up one of them. And is my Boyfriend and we lost contact. If I did not ignored his intention to have a talk with me, what will things be like now?
Lastly, this ex-best friend whom I chose and can you imagine we are that close to give each other a nick? "Darling" Sounds mushy but we are just FRIENDS. I must admit she was really someone nice and closest to me. Many times, I argued and gave faces to my CCA buddies and my second ex-boyfriend over her. At that time, I don't think all these are worthless as she was my best and closest friend at that time. I thought we could remain that close forever, but I'm wrong. We went everywhere together, almost explored the whole of Singapore. Then slowly, our relationship strained. Everything changed in just a spilt of a second. She began to lie to me, said hurting stuffs to me, controlling me to the extend of expecting me to report to her in whatever I'm doing. I'm really sorry but I have to ignore her from then on. Expecting her to give me an explanation for her action before replying to her SMSes. Instead she went more overboard then ever. I guess she did not know I was expecting an explanation. Ever since, we lost contact and went our own ways and I did not get the reasons of she lying till now. It has been 2 years. If, I just told her straight and confront her at that very moment she began to change, what is the outcome 2 years ago to now? If she suddenly gives me an explanation now, will I listen? I will if it's nothing but the TRUTH. One more friend is better than one more enemy.
Luckily, I managed to accept En's idea of having a talk with Li, else I can't imagine what will we be like now. Ever since the talk, Li and I are closer to one another. Now to me, a talk is really a powerful solution only when both parties are willing to listen and accept their own faults and have the will to change for the person they care. This is the doing of a matured adult. Thinking of cutting off ties with one another is simply too childish and silly. I admit, I'm childish in the past, and I am willing to change. What about you?
Perhaps, you may encounter the same situation as me. Rather I should say, everyone does encounter these problems. It's time for you to buck up your courage and be a matured adult, take up your mobile now and initiate a good and fruitful talk with the other party. Be it just an apology, giving explanation, asking for explanation or just a simple sms, to show you simply care the one you have not been contacting for years. This is not a sense of weakness. Cause you are willing to take up the first step and this prove you are a winner.
I shall end with:
A Loser is the one who has no courage to admit his/her fault. A Loser will hide in a corner waiting for a Winner to give in. Winner or Loser? Your choice.
Sunday, August 10, 2008
Finally, I'm free from all the projects and back to blogging. It has been delayed to share my birthday celebration with you peeps. My celebration is separated into 3 days. And I believe pictures say a thousand words.
24July celebration with manna's peeps!
Unfortunately, I did not manage to post the picture of the cake. But I receive something real special: A Kiss From LI!
Next on the actual day: 25July Celebration with family
26July Celebration with the beauties
These are my gifts! Thanks Everyone
From LaoPo!! Customized
I went to LaoPo's workplace to give her a big surprise. She did not know I was waiting for her to release from work, and that after we went for dinner in a Korean Restaurant with Su at Novena Square 2
24July celebration with manna's peeps!
Unfortunately, I did not manage to post the picture of the cake. But I receive something real special: A Kiss From LI!
Next on the actual day: 25July Celebration with family
26July Celebration with the beauties
These are my gifts! Thanks Everyone
From LaoPo!! Customized
I went to LaoPo's workplace to give her a big surprise. She did not know I was waiting for her to release from work, and that after we went for dinner in a Korean Restaurant with Su at Novena Square 2
Went for F.I.R concert on the 8th August. It is not as entertaining as S.H.E Concert. There is not a need to queue to enter the indoor stadium, the concert started half an hour late, fans take their own sweet time to enter and be seated, Yelling and cheering at the end only. Atmosphere is quite cold in the beginning.
As compared to S.H.E, long queue to enter, Concert start on time, and fans are already seated long before the concert commence, fans started yelling and cheering from the start to the end. It's livelier and more warmth.
F.I.R don't dance. Songs are so-so nothing much. But my sis enjoyed it. Anyway it's over. S.H.E is still the best.
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